Someone
recently made a comment to me about people these days not wanting to work which
caused me to ponder. The conversation revolved around having no interest in
purchasing and raising
meat rabbits because of the work
involved. I was shocked because two does and a buck can produce an average of
300 pounds of meat a year! Now to John
and I with a young family that was very interesting as we realized raising rabbits
will supplement a lot of our meat! It is a no brainer to us. Are they work?
Sure. But what isn't work on a homestead? The person whom started the
conversation went on to say how it is so much easier to go to the store,
purchase your food and let that be it. I agree, it is way easier! But…do you
know what that animal was fed?
Do you know how the meat was processed? Do you
know the cleanliness of the packaging? Do you know if the refrigeration has
been consistent or was it left out to thaw and refreeze between shipping or at
the store? When we raise our own food, we know what it was fed, how it was
handled, cleanliness practices that were involved in the processing and storage
for later use. If anything goes wrong, we have only ourselves to blame and no
questions need to be asked or concerns raised as when a health recall is made
on what products as can happen when items are purchased at the store.
Back to my topic of
a nonworking generation. How am I raising my children? I am responsible to
teach them a work ethic. Will it be 1.) Don’t worry, if I put it off long
enough mommy will do it. 2.) I don’t have to even bother doing work, mommy
never asks me. 3.) I'll start it but mommy will want it done a little better so
she will come in and finish it for me. or 4.) I better get my work done so I
can move on to play faster.
I was raised with a
few mottos "work before play" and "work hard, play hard" It
is ingrained into me. I am a go getter. I see something that needs done, it
will get done. If I make a list, that list will get done, even if it means an all
nighter (drives John CRAZY!!!!).
I have come to the
conclusion, I had to start teaching my children how to work. Then I realized,
they want to! They want to learn! They want to be involved… but am I letting
them? To be completely transparent, it would be way faster and much easier to
do all the work myself. It would get
done the way I want it done and it would get done quickly. But, what does that
teach my children? How does that make them feel, self-worth? The sense of
accomplishment of doing a good job at something? Of finishing a project. I want
them to be proud of their work. I want them to be someone willing to go the
extra mile. I want them to do their best for the Lord and give Him their best.
My children are
involved in all areas of this homestead and life we live. They are able to
plant seeds in the garden. They feed animals. They do household chores. They
are right alongside of us doing this life together. Do they always like it?
Nope. But let me ask you a question. Do you like the work you have to do? I
don’t always enjoy it. So why set them up for failure if we portray that
everything in life is fun? They have to learn some time, so why not now? Why
not when they are young? One of our daily chores is the floor in the house.
They take turns vacuuming. One child will do the rug and one child the
hardwood. Is it done perfectly as I would do it? No, I don’t have super kids
who are able to spotless clean like I would, but, I have some pretty amazing
kids that clean the floor each day and are learning to do their chores with a
good attitude. (And I figure that if it is done each day than odds are pretty
high that most areas will get done and eventually the whole floor will be
clean. =)
So let me ask a few
questions I think about when I work with my children…
- Are you willing to take the time to teach them a good work ethic? Like it or not, you are teaching them a work ethic one way or another. Which one do you want to teach?
- Are you willing to stick with it to train and work along side of them as they learn and need trained?
- Are you willing to be proud of them and encourage them along the way? Helping them strive for excellence without demeaning them.
Join with us as we
try to train a new generation to be willing to work and strive for excellence
in all they do. Have fun on this journey with your little people. You will be
amazed at all the areas your children can be involved in with you. Be creative and
enjoy!
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